Douglas Johns

First and foremost I listen. Collaborative Couple Therapy is a process of continuous deep listening by the therapist. I want to understand as deeply as I can what you and your partner experience individually in your relationship. Listening in this way is a skill that goes beyond simple spoken word and only stops when therapy ends. I become aware of your unique style of communicating and relating with your partner and I routinely request your feedback on what I experience to confirm and refine my understanding. I want you to feel understood and accepted by me as I simultaneously help guide you to express your authentic experience in ways that build connection and intimacy with your partner. As I collaborate with both of you in the present moment, I am also demonstrating how you may collaborate with each other. Collaborative Couple Therapy is a structure for turning disagreement and arguments into intimate conversations that strengthen your loving connection. Within that process I want you both to experience my respect, supportive curiosity, and acceptance for your unique experiences. Our collaboration becomes a learned experience for you and your partner to collaborate on your own, even when the conversation feels risky or painful.

Please call me with any questions you have. I prefer to speak by phone with potential clients so that we can both decide if I will be a good fit for working with you. I do not email clients. My website is also a good place to find more in-depth information for how I work with couples.